The Truth About Victoria Gotti's Ex-Husband
Daniel Hoffman
Updated on February 09, 2026
In 1984, Victoria Gotti married Carmine Agnello against her parents' wishes. They had three sons: Carmine Jr., John, and Frank (seen above). In 2003, according to the New York Daily News, Gotti filed for divorce from Agnello, citing "constructive abandonment." The divorce filing made headlines because Agnello was in jail at the time, because, according to The New York Times, Agnello was allegedly using his scrap-metal operation as a cover for racketeering. And though Agnello was released from jail in 2008, it wasn't before Gotti got a hefty settlement in the divorce.
"Gotti got $12,500 a month in alimony and $12,500 a month for their three sons – Carmine, John and Frank – who would go on to star in the cable TV show 'Growing Up Gotti,'" reported the New York Daily News. "Gotti got the mansion in Old Westbury, L.I., which was on the market for $3.9 million in 2006, but a government lien still hangs over the 4-acre estate. Agnello was ordered to maintain a $1 million life insurance policy that would pay Gotti $400,000 and her sons $600,000 when he dies."
But if you think that Gotti and Agnello have maintained a civil relationship, think again. Read on to find out what happened the last time they were in the same room together.
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